Falling in love-someday it will happen to you. You will find yourself suddenly falling in love and it will amaze you.
You can't run away from it. Love eventually catches up with everyone. It may be sooner or later. Regardless of the time, how long it takes, you can be absolutely sure ever head over heels in love with someone will fall.
But that's not the scary part.
The part that most people are afraid the fact love sometimes tend to blind-or so it seems.
The truth is, true love is hard to come by. Real love is rare. When you finally something that seems to find true love, you grab it with both hands. You invest everything you have in it. Unfortunately, you may know months later that it is not real love. Have you chasing a dream!
That brings us back to the really scary part. Love tends to be blind. Falling in love people tend to irrational and illogical. The emotion of love. Then nothing else matters.
Why is this scary?
The answer is simple. Love can be destructive. Love, blind love, can ruin your life.
Yes, a kind of love is blind love. This kind of love is romantic love.
True love or real love, is constructive and upbuilding. True love is
Realistic
In extreme cases
Thoughtful
Selfless
Practical and down-to-Earth
Blind love or infatuation is unrealistic, selfish and destructive.
When falling in love, you wonder what kind you fall in love. Is it true love or infatuation? Is your love based on selfless and realistic expectations or fantasy?
See an example of how blind love, romantic love, it can be.
Sharon was a decent and rich home. She was a student who had everything they wanted. She was stunning beauty and well-educated and cultured. Understandably suitors came in droves.
Her father's wealth poured her away, so they are rich in the accepted sense of the word was. The suitors ask her hand in marriage were just so rich. Many had an enviable social status.
However, Sharon was simply not interested. Marriage was still in her books. And if she decides to marry, she would marry the man of her dreams. So she said.
Eventually, Sharon fell in love. Unfortunately, her lover was a rude shock for everyone including her parents.
Sharon's boyfriend was a heroine non-smoking cult boy with an attitude. He was not exactly crazy about her. But they footed his account and paid his way to smoke. So he put up with her.
Sharon, on the other hand, was madly in love. They saw something in him that she had not seen anywhere else. Her friend, Larry, was broad shoulders, high, tough, rough, bold, unrelenting and daring. He would stare death in the face and not bart an eyelid. Her boyfriend was a real man!
Sharon was insanely in love with Larry and there was no stopping her. Her parents couldn't understand why their rich and well-RACE daughter fell in love with a bad heroine non-smoking gangster. Her friends could not understand either.
Can you feel Sharon's love? Do you understand why her soft hair fell for a hoodlum?
Sharon fell in love with a dream-a bold and daring, no nonsense, dare devil guy. He had the looks and the heart of a lion. They admired that courage, that male boldness. That admiration quickly turned to love. And there was no stopping her.
However, she is on the wrong track.
True love is not based on physical attraction. Physical attraction ultimately failed as people get older and older. What counts most is spiritual virtues-your beloved personality.
A heroine non-smoking gangster eventually gets in trouble and the country itself in the prison. A gangster cultist takes delight in people beaten and stimulating problems. Sooner or later, if they marry, they can become a battered wife.
You get the point?
Romantic love is blind, physical, destructive. True love is astute, up-building,
Refresh.
True love, true love, is based on realistic expectations and facts. It is a selfless and works for the welfare of its partner. Romantic love, on the other hand, don't care about the reality. It focuses on the physical and immediate profit.
Evaluate your feelings well before you proceed with this love affair.
Relationships based on true love lasts forever. Relationships on the basis of romantic love are usually temporary and ephemeral. That is the reason why some marriages some two weeks, seven days, and still others last a lifetime.
The difference is true love. Real love is true and lasts forever.
Think of falling in love?
Make sure it is real love. Evaluate your potential lovers regarding your desire most-what is known and proven that create relationships last.
Hey, falling in love the right way. It is your life. It is your future. It's your luck on the game.
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